James N. & Shirley W. Phinney
Dear Diane, News of Mike's sudden passing was such a shock to all who knew him. Our hearts go out to you and mikes's family. Sad and hard to take, yet his passing after the joy of receiving his so well deserved "Quilt of Valour" at Gem Vac Vets Tuesday morning was so special. I had to miss it due to medical appts.!!
Mike was so special. Though we only knew each other over the past five years, we bonded--as brothers, as "fox hole buddies", and with Ruth, Paul, Andy, and Rick working with Mike on "taking the Reins". When he finally got on that horse and rode around the ring and outside course--WOW --the beam on his face will forever be with me!!
We had our precious and much needed talks with each other--both suffering with PTSS for so many years...together we helped each other and bonded as brothers. Not just as WWII vets who had both suffered tough losses of close buddies and all the other memories of the "hell" of wars. But, we were both positive about life, life loving, patriots of America and lovers of a good laugh, or joke, and our close kinship. I have been deeply personally blessed with his eternal friendship. I shall miss him daily, but he will be with me daily in my prayers, as will you.
Friends aren't much help in times of deep loss, but perhaps our expression of sadness and love can, in time, help you. But your abiding love of Mike, your faith and fond memories will sustain you. With our sympathy and love. Jim & Shirley
